
Deborah Hill LCSW (Ret.)
Estimated reading time: 3–4 minutes
The world right now feels unpredictable. We’re flooded daily with news—some real, some not—that stirs up anger, helplessness, depression, and anxiety. At the same time, life marches on. We celebrate birthdays, plan weddings, cherish family moments, and get promotions—while wars rage, politics divide, and personal struggles like job loss or divorce quietly unfold behind the scenes.
It may seem counterintuitive, but finding happiness amid turmoil isn’t denial—it’s survival. It’s not forgetting what’s happening or pretending to be unaffected. It’s more like holding an umbrella in a storm or finding the strength to lift your hand above rising waters.
Happiness, in times like these, becomes a quiet act of resistance. Here are 15 ways to cultivate it—even when the world feels heavy:
- Smile more. Find joy in simple moments and the people around you.
- Take breaks from the news and social media. Constant exposure fuels stress and fear.
- Stay connected. Nurture relationships and activities that uplift you.
- Give generously. Compliments, kindness, and small gestures go a long way.
- Acknowledge your feelings. Journal, move your body, or channel your emotions into purpose.
- Challenge negative self-talk. When your inner critic speaks up, reframe the message.
- Let go of hate. Hatred solves nothing—it only poisons the vessel that carries it.
- Stop living in the past. Release the “should haves” and “what ifs.”
- Immerse yourself in music. Let it lift, heal, or energize you.
- Nourish your spirit. Whatever your beliefs, cultivate a deep spiritual life.
- Don’t assume or judge. You can’t read minds, and you never know someone else’s story.
- Prioritize self-care. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
- Declutter your space. A clear environment helps create a clearer mind.
- Get good sleep. Rest isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.
- Step into nature. Even a brief walk can reset your soul.
Life is complicated, but within the chaos, we can choose moments of peace, joy, and connection. The goal isn’t to ignore what’s hard—it’s to find the light that helps us move through it.
What’s on your mind?